Love, isn’t that a feeling that just makes us skip a heart beat? Now-a-days, people are really confused about what exactly love means. These days, understanding a relationship is even more complicated than understanding rocket science. This happens especially when you’ve been single for a long, long time and then finally, love knocks your door.
When you’re finally in a relationship after being single for an extremely long period of time, you tend to think a lot and end up having such thoughts which totally freaks the shit out of you.
If you have a habit of over-thinking for every small situation, trust me, you’d definitely relate to each one of these.
1. Do I really love him/her?
Once this question pops up in your mind, not even a sleeping pill can give you a proper sleep. You’re so immune to your single-hood and freedom, you think you might end up messing some real good stuff. Whereas, in reality, you won’t.
2. Is this going to last?
And those sleeping pills are useless in this case as well. That fear of detachment gives you chills down your spine, especially when you really want something to last forever.
3. Should I give him/her cheesy names?
Baby, babu, shona, my choice-pie, the apple of my eye, honey, jaan, bacha, bachu and the list goes on and on. I’m sure your partner has a pretty good name, which is easy to pronounce as well. But this thought will definitely strike you.
4. What if he/she and my best friends do not gel well?
And this is certainly not a good situation. Of course, your best friends know about your crush from the very beginning, but what if those two don’t get along well? What if both of them end up fighting? And this thought has a power to screw your brains.
5. I have to share my food!
This one scares me out the most. But someone has rightly said – Love does not come an easy way.
6. I hope he/she is good in bed
Well, you can certainly talk it out on this topic and know each other’s preferences.
It is natural that such thoughts will cross your mind. Any other thoughts that have crossed your mind? Mention in the comment section below and let’s have a laugh together.